Are you tired of watching other people reach success and get what they want, while you feel like you’re falling more and more behind?
Maybe you get the products, items, and things that you want, but are you getting what you deeply want? This can include better relationships, more happiness, peace of mind, and vision.
You can have all the money in the world and still not attract what you want. This article covers how to attract what you want, build your confidence, and reach those dreams and hopes you always wanted.
Have a vision
Have you ever been inspired by someone because of their commitment and dedication to reaching a goal? Maybe they did something that you’ve always wanted to do.
“How did they do it?” you ask yourself, then, often, wallow because you feel like you’ll never reach that level.
“I’m not good enough,” you think to yourself. But that’s not true.
You ARE good enough. Everything you need is within you to reach the goals you always wanted but first you’ll need two vital tools: vision and confidence.
A personal experience about having vision
I want to share a personal example about this. My husband and I have dreamed of getting out of the financial rat race. My husband is a carpenter, and I’m a writer. He builds things and makes videos of his creative builds. I write, publish, and sell my books.
While these outlets make income, they are slow methods to building wealth and getting out of the rat race. They do increase passive income, but they don’t get us out of the rat race right away. We knew we needed to do something else, something that increased our passive income exponentially.
So we dove into buying a property by a lake.
A lot of people probably thought we were crazy. “They’re going into more debt during a season of inflation.” “Just watch them have to sell that property when they can’t make the payments.”
To add to the chaos of everything going on (our creative projects, the property, and life in general), we decided to have a baby! Now we looked completely insane to others.
We received unsolicited advice about saving up, how we better “have fun” now because once the baby came, we’d be unhappy and “stuck.”
But this was not our vision, and we did not let anyone else’s insecurities hinder or stop us. Sure, it was upsetting to be told negative things about having a baby during this season of our lives, but we ignored all the haters.
Instead, we focused on our vision: create several streams of passive income so we can be financially free. Furthermore, do all we can to live our ideal lifestyle now.
That meant that even when we do have our baby, we’ll still travel, create, and pursue our vision and dream.
People project their insecurities
What I learned from this is that sometimes people project their insecurities on you because they don’t have a vision. Often others feel stuck, limited, and unhappy in their patterns of false beliefs.
They don’t really know what they want, which makes it easy to tease, belittle, and bully people who do have a vision.
Don’t listen to the haters. Focus on what you can control, and the excitement and hope that you receive from your vision.
At the time of writing this article, my husband and I just closed on the gorgeous property. We will start building vacation rentals on it soon enough, and it will be awesome. Our vision is ours. Your vision is yours.
Let the vision and dreams of your future propel you forward. Ignore the negativity of others, and stay committed to your dreams. You got this. 🙂
Plan ahead
If you want to know another great way on how to attract what you want, then planning is your best friend.
Have a vision, but break that big goal into little steps. What do you need to do first to get there? How long will it take? What does the timeline look like?
Take it one step a time.
You’ll be surprised by how much you get done just by planning things out… and following through with the plan! You can plan and plan, but make sure to DO. Put in the action.
Remember… dreams don’t work unless you do.
A warning: Be realistic with your plans too. It’s easy to get discouraged if you set too high of expectations or overwhelm yourself. Use the “SMART” goal system if you need to! “Smart” stands for “specific, measurable, achievable, realistic, and time-sensitive.”
Write things down
This is one of the best ways on how to attract what you want. I can personally say that this really works!
I love planning the years ahead, because the vision and dreams give me something to work towards.
Write your goals. Keep them in a place you can see them often.
A lot of people call this “manifesting.” But there’s some false idea that if you write it down or say it aloud, yet do nothing, it’ll work.
No, write your dreams, vision, hopes, and goals, but do something about it.
I love writing 5 year plans or 10 year plans. They help me look forward and remind me of why I’m doing all the little things I do now. The work I do now will add up and help me reach those big goals and dreams.
Also check out: 100+ Self Confidence Journal Prompts
Be confident
You don’t need all the confidence in the world to attract what you want. You just need enough confidence to get started.
Taking the first step is often the hardest part.
Let yourself daydream
When we’re children we daydream a lot. Adults don’t give themselves that time of quiet, a time to let their thoughts drift, ponder, meditate.
But we need stillness.
If you want to attract what you want, give yourself the time for peace and quiet. It will help you clarify what you truly want, and form that vision for it.
In conclusion
Are you ready to attract what you want? You can do it, I completely believe in you.
The question is, are you ready to take the first step? A lot of people stop the attraction because they won’t put in any action. They freeze up, worried what people will think of them or scared that they’ll fail.
Put these fears aside. Create a vision. And don’t listen to people’s negativity.
You totally got this. It’s time to attract what you truly want. Go for it friend!
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